Owning My Own Winter Vacation Home

My family and I live in Fresno, CA. Hold on, now before you start tearing Fresno apart, I will say the best part about living in Fresno is the vicinity to a number of vacation destinations!
It’s just a two or three hour drive to a variety of California beaches, an hour to the Sierra mountains, two hours to Yosemite, three hours to either San Francisco or Los Angeles, and just four hours from Lake Tahoe, where we dream of one day owning a vacation home so the entire family can have an awesome place to visit anytime of the year.
When my wife was younger, that’s what her whole family did. They would rent a cabin at Lake Tahoe for a week and gather to hang out in the summer. Now the summer would be great, but I love winter. I grew up in the hills of West Virginia, so I want my kids (and my new Alusky pup) to visit the snow as much as I did growing up. There’s nothing better than waking up to a winter wonderland, and spending the day in a snow covered mountains.
Of course we’re miles away from owning a vacation home, but I did get to researching and found a really great Winter Vacation Report that was done by Vacasaabout the Top 10 places to buy winter vacation homes and found that North Lake Tahoe was number 10.
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I mean, I’m kinda not surprised. It’s friggin, Lake Tahoe…have you been there? It’s beyond magical.
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It was cool to see other spots on their list as well that I had never thought of like, Big Bear Lake, CA. which wouldn’t be a bad winter destination either.
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Explore Big Bear Lake vacation rentals.
And I love…LOVE…Flagstaff, AZ in the winter. That place is heaven.
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Explore Flagstaff vacation rentals.
All in all, Vacasa did get me thinking about the future of owning a vacation rental. I mean, if I purchased one, then I could have Vacasa (as they are a property management company) manage the property and I could make money on it, while being able to use it for myself when I want to do so. We have a friend who owns four vacation properties, she loves it and that’s her yearly income…so perhaps the future can be a little closer than we think.

**** This is a sponsored post. I partnered with Vacasa for this post, but hopefully one day I can partner with them on a dream vacation home. ****

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The Best Age to Potty Train

 

Having three strong-willed (boy) children, potty training can be a real challenge. My second oldest is 3 1/2 and he just started potty training. My first son potty trained about the same time and he didn’t officially finish until he was about 4 1/2 years old.

What surprises me is how many people ask that question, after they turn 2, “Is he potty trained yet?” It’s difficult enough to get my kids to dress themselves, so potty training is a real disaster.

I know the guidelines are something around 24 months and you’re supposed to watch for signs. But my kids…they know what I’m trying to do. They can sense it. And they will revolt.

No matter how many people tell me their own stories about how they just threw out the diapers and next thing they knew, their kid was using the potty without accidents within a couple of days.

I’m sure that works for some people, but we’ve had better luck waiting for my kids to be “Ready to Potty Train”…meaning they are on a maturity level where I can talk to them about it and they know when they need to go. When they reach that point and get interested in the potty, which in our experience has been about 3 1/2, we start the routine of letting them run around naked for awhile.

There will of course be a few accidents this way. But without a diaper on, they can tell when they need to go and when they do go, (most of the time outside) they learn from it.

A diaper and even underwear can hinder them from realizing they are going in their pants until it’s too late. So being naked helps get them to the toilet, so they can at least try when they have the inkling that they might need to go.

And when they do go, it can often be a real mess. So we use the Clorox® ToiletWand Disposable Toilet Cleaning System to help clean and disinfect.

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I can’t keep a regular toilet brush setting around as it usually ends up being used as a magic wand or sword, so the Clorox® ToiletWand is the fastest solution to cleaning my toilet.

Just click a refill head onto the wand, scrub to unleash preloaded Clorox® Toilet Bowl Cleaner, then toss the head away.

In short, this potty training method works for us. Not pressuring them and allowing them to have the confidence to make their own decisions. I’ve found find they are better at listening and discovering their own bodies and they will get to the potty faster, with a lot less accidents.

Your child’s age doesn’t matter. They know when they are ready and they will hit that developmental stage. If you are patient, you’ll find potty training gets faster and easier.  

This post was sponsored by Clorox. The opinions are completely my own based on my experience.

 

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Cover Your Butts…with Butt Paste!

Summer is here in Fresno and so far, it’s been pretty hot. The past week, every day was over 100 degrees.

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Added up that was 740 degrees in one week. That’s pretty hot. Like some other planet hot.

Having little kids who love/NEED to play outdoors, I have to make sure they are slathered in sunscreen and protected from the heat both inside and out. I have three boys, two of them still in diapers, which means the summer is particularly harder on them….especially their butts and groin area. Nothing worse than peeling that diaper off and seeing a bright red bottom. It hurts.

As a guy who runs a lot, even in the heat, I feel that almost every other week.

Most of the summers in the Fresno, my boys run around completely naked at our house. It’s best the defense against the dreaded RED CRACK or SWAMP A**.

My wife and I have gone through numerous diaper rash creams, but nothing really soothes the pain and clears the rash like Boudreaux’s Butt Paste®.

 

 

 

My sons really got into the whole Boudreaux’s Butt Paste® campaign that I was doing. So much, my middle son wanted to make a commercial for Boudreaux’s Butt Paste®

 

Disclaimer: This post is sponsored by Boudreaux’s Butt Paste and the #KickingRash campaign. However, I have used the products for many years now and I do recommend it. Plus it leaves a refreshing mint smell!! To learn more, follow them HERE, on Facebook, Twitter and Instagram.

 

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The Little Things

I have partnered with Life of Dad and LittleBites® for this campaign, but the story is my own. –CretinDaddy

Parenting is hard. It’s not always difficult to figure out, but it IS hard. Because there are no breaks, even when the kids are at school, or with family, and you’re not responsible for their immediate well being, there is no relief from the worry. Caring is exhausting. So why do we do it?

Because we can. Because “The Little Things,” every day, make it worth it. Yes, there are big milestones, like potty training, and starting school, driving, graduating, college, marriage, and of course, GRANDKIDS! But the little things get us to those life changing moments. The way they play with a sibling, tell a story, skip down the sidewalk, and even snuggle up when they don’t feel well. And until they are much older, they will never understand how important and wonderful those moments are.

There is so much to do for them. Clothes, food, housing, education. I believe they will eventually appreciate those things. But I hope to give them “little things” that they will remember as well. My favorite little thing for TheBoy (and eventually for TheGirl) are daily LunchNotes. I love drawing them. I love connecting with him during his school day. I love letting him know we are always thinking about him. I can only hope that someday, as he remembers “the little things” from his childhood, he will tell others, “My Dad put a drawing in my lunch every day.”

What are some of the little things your kids do, or that you do for them, that make it all worth it?

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I love when we walk and hold hands. I know this will go away soon. (He’s 9.)

DadLabs’s is happy to join Entenmann’s® Little Bites® and Life of Dad in celebrating #TheLittleThings. They’re a nutritious snack that makes parenting just a little bit easier. There are lots of flavors (ten!) and TheBoy has confirmed the blueberry variety is “really delicious!” (I can confirm the chocolate chip muffins are also delicious. So good I think he’s going to have to wait for the next box to find out.) Go to the Life of Dad’s Facebook page and enter the photo contest for a chance to win a $250 Visa gift card! (That’ll buy a bunch of mini-muffins!)

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“Really delicious!” –TheBoy

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Cuss Less with the DIYZ App®

Curse Less with DIYz

Disclosure: “This project and story have been sponsored by the DIYZ® app. My opinions are my own…and so are my cuss words.”
Do-It-Yourself Projects. They are a good idea in theory. IN THEORY! But you know what happens when you try to do the simplest of tasks at home: all your tools go missing, you never have the right parts and you end up cussing worse than a drunken sailor on leave.
All I wanted to do was replace one of my broken light switches and unclog a sink that’s been clogged for far too long. These are two things that I could only assume would be simple tasks, but you know, you always start these things and end up on the floor cursing.

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Now, I’ve watched a lot of DIY tutorials on YouTube and about 99% of them end in cursing and unfinished projects. So I assumed that would happen when I tried the DIYZ app as well. But, I have to admit, the way the DIYZ app is setup is exactly the way DIY tutorials should be.
The app provides you with an overview of many different projects with both segmented video and bulleted instructions, shows you the difficulty settings, time and cost of project. It takes you through each project step by step, and includes an overview video to help get you started. My favorite part is the shopping feature, which leads you to Amazon where you can purchase all the necessary tools and materials you need for your project.

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And for once, I finished TWO projects in one day. TWO! I unclogged this nightmare sink and fixed the broken light switch. My wife was happy. The kids were happy. I was relieved.
If you’re really struggling, the DIYZ app even offers a Pro Advice feature. With the DIYZ app, you can speak directly to a licensed contractor via video-chat or voice-chat. The best part about DIYZ Pro Advisors? It is FREE for a limited time.
So, in summary, the DIYZ app is the perfect app to complete those nagging DIY projects. I
actually finished mine. Did I still cuss? Yes. But, it was 50% less cussing than I would normally do. And that is a big success.
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Get inspired with the DIYZ app

Disclosure: Written in collaboration with DIYZ. Though I have been compensated for this post, all opinions are my own.

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There is something truly satisfying about completing a project around the house on your own. Deciding to do it yourself to save money, or even just because you can. The gathering of tools and supplies, researching the how-to, working hard, and then stepping back and enjoying the fruits of your labor…All of that can actually be fun. When I hear someone talking about their latest DIY project, I get inspired. I love wandering around on the internet in search of projects that I can do to improve my home and/or yard. I have hundreds of bookmarked projects. (That’s not an exaggeration.) Each one somehow inspired me. Some are harder than others, and only a fraction of them have a chance of ever being attempted. But even just the inspiration is important. It feeds my fidgety brain and encourages me to simply DO SOMETHING. There are times when I’m inspired to attempt a project right away, and sometimes it pushes me to complete a different project, so that latest inspiration can move up on the list.

Enter a new influencer to my project list… The #DIYZ app. You’re wondering, “ Can a do-it-yourself app really be inspiring?” Yes! The project list alone is enough actually. There are home improvements like replacing kitchen counter tops, and building a window seat, along with garden jobs like installing a pond and building raised flower beds. The #DIYZ library includes some simple maintenance tasks like changing door locks and repairing a toilet flush valve. But there are also fun projects like a Disney themed garden bench and a beer caddy (one of those I had to have right away, you guess which one – keep reading for the answer). For me, the inspiration comes not just from the list, but how every project is complete, in description, instructions, materials and tools lists, along with segmented videos for each step. You can even order some of the supplies AND tools direct from Amazon within the app. Imagine tackling a project without having to go the hardware store at all, let alone 3 or 9 times! If you get stuck along the way, or just need some help getting started, you can talk to a Pro Advisor directly! Free! (The app is always free and for a limited time, the video chat feature is free!) You can share real-time photos of your progress and get pointers and tips from the Pro Advisor right there with your image. Several projects in the growing library within the app have already made their way to my “I’m gonna do that” list. Mundane tasks like repairing cracked plaster walls and installing a USB outlet, and some much cooler ones like building a table top sandbox, and a beer caddy! (They had me at beer!)

So… I have a new creative tool obsession. I can find a way to use it for just about any project. It was easy for this one… instead of using traditional wood cutting saws, I took the measurements from the DIYZ app beer caddy, along with some scrap 1/2”, 1/4” and 1/8” plywood, and cut them with a LASER(!) at a local makerspace. (And I just had to add a couple of embellishments.) Then right back to the app steps of sanding and assembly.

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A pile o’ parts.

What do you think? I’m ready to cart beer to the pool deck, to the neighbors, and to parties with friends and family!

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Ta da! Just add beer!

Check out the DIYZ app and get inspired. See what other #DIYZGuys are up to on Instagram, Pinterest, Twitter, Facebook, and YouTube. Let DIYZ help you #GetWise while you save money vs. hiring a professional, AND still get help from a professional! What project do you want to accomplish? Share your DIY success, or horror, stories with us!

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Do the Sweep (Music Video)

CLEAN UP YOUR MESS!

It’s that simple. It’s such a simple phrase that none of us want to hear, because none of us like to clean up our messes.
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Why do we not want to clean up our mess? Because it takes precious time out of our day doing the things we love.
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Like binge watching television.
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Or staring at our phone for a few hours
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Or just procrastinating in general.
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Cleaning up your messes isn’t hard to do.
Most of the time it takes a minute or two.
I know what you’re thinking how could it be any fun.
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But just watch this video and you’ll feel like number one!
This is a sponsored post brought to you by the good people at Clorox who always provide me with some really cool cleaning products that always get the job done faster than any other cleaning products. And the kitchen and bathroom counters have never looked better.
To learn more about Clorox® ScrubSingles™ Bathroom Pads: https://www.clorox.com/products/clorox-scrub-singles-bathroom-pads/
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#ISleepTo let my wife #SleepIn

#ISleepTo let my wife #SleepIn

We have three little boys.

My Three Sons

I know what you’re thinking.

And you’re right!

We are #blessed

I also know what you’re thinking.

And you’re right!

We are #deadtired

We have so much energy going wild in the house, Doc Brown would be able to fill a Hundred Mr. Fusions!

We’re also lucky because I work from home. Well, it’s not easy getting work done at home with three kids, but that’s a whole other issue. Right now, we’re talking about getting sleep..and boy do we need it.

What happens if you don’t get enough sleep? Go ahead. Google it.

But don’t go to WebMd

So my wife and I made a deal. She takes care of all the night stuff. And I let her take naps throughout the day.

I know what you’re thinking.

Naps throughout the day? Who could be so lucky?

Well, ask my wife. She says she is.

The problem was, I still felt tired even though I was the one to sleep in the night.

So I needed help. That’s why I was glad to team up with @LifeofDad and @Beautyrest and try out their Beautyrest Sleeptracker monitor.

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It was pretty easy to setup. You just download the app to your phone.

It’s incredibly easy to setup. You just download the app to your phone. Place the sensors between your mattress and foundation, in line with your pillow, plug the wires into the processor, sync up the app, and that’s it!  It’s amazing how much data this product collects. Breathing Rate, heart rate, efficiency, wakeup, time in each sleep cycle and so much more! It even comes with a series of white noises…my personal favorite: Coffee Maker.

What really helped me was the Dynamic Sleep Coach that showed me tips for a better night sleep.

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In truth, I feel better since getting the Beautyrest Sleeptracker monitor and when my wife naps, I have more energy to take care of my three sons.

I have partnered with Life of Dad and Beautyrest for this campaign, but my opinions are my own.

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Spring LawnGoals with Cub Cadet

Life of Dad and Cub Cadet have graciously sponsored this post. The story and opinions stated are mine. –CretinDaddy

Last fall, after a late night on the internet(dangerous, right?), I was browsing homes for sale just for shiggles. I found a house that I fell in love with. But we weren’t really in the market, at all. Less than a week later, it was ours. A month later, we moved in. Every day since then, and I really do mean EVERY DAY… I have said, out loud, “I cannot believe I live here.”

The yard was a huge selling point for me. We had a tiny yard crowded with a play deck and tiny shed. Now we have a yard, a huge tree, a garage(!), a hottub(!!), and a pool with a deck(!!!). And there’s still yard to spare! (Can you say, skateboard mini-ramp? I knew you could.) The listing photos were of a tropical paradise in the city.

Little did I know, all those gorgeous banana trees had to be dug up, and “saved” indoors, and then replanted in the Spring. The work involved with that first part was immense. (There were over 70 of those buggers!) For the last fall lawn cutting, the yard took me 3 times as long to mow as our previous yard, and that was with my brother running a second mower to help. So the commitment to lawn maintenance is… big. Challenging even, if you will, and much more than I’ve ever done.

So I’m all in with Life of Dad and Cub Cadet for the #LawnGoals campaign. MY goal is to bring this yard back to its tropical glory. So TheBoy and TheGirl can frolic, swim, and play and make lifelong memories that will inspire them to make similar memories with their kids, my grandchildren.

Why am I telling you this? Because we know you have lawn goals too. The backyard is a family sanctuary. A place to relax and read or nap in a hammock for some, a place to play wiffle ball and corn hole for others. It’s sometimes a perfect venue to entertain friends with an outdoor movie night and grilling. We know you take pride in your yard. So Cub Cadet is hosting the “Where Lawns Come to Life” contest, encouraging you to share a picture or video highlighting your yard and your #LawnGoals.

To enter capture a photo or video of your yard, tell us how you bring your lawn to life and why your yard is #LawnGoals. Share the post on Twitter or Instagram with the hashtags #LawnGoals #Sweepstakes or visit http://cubcadet.votigo.com/lawngoals and upload a photo.

If your entry is approved, you’ll be entered for a chance to win one Cub Cadet RZT L 42 KH Lap Bar Zero-Turn Rider (ARV $2,399.99), hotel accommodations for two, and two tickets to attend an NHRA event in the summer of 2017.

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Look at that beautiful machine! WANT!

So follow along with the Cretin family this Spring and Summer. Enter the contest, because who doesn’t want a high-performance zero-turn riding mower? Share your backyard family games and traditions. I can’t wait to create new ones in our new home this year and share them with all of our DadLabs fans.

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It’s Bonding Time

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As a dad of three high energy boys…4, 2 and 1… it’s hard to stay focused at any given time. It feel like I can’t bond with any of them individually because I’m always having to bond with them in a group setting. 

My boys don’t really like to sit down for very long with anyone……anyone…unless they’re watching a TV show or they’re tired enough to let you read to them…so a lot of the activities I do with them is revolved around play.

Ever since my first one was born I’ve loved building little houses and tunnels for him made out of cardboard boxes.

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I’ve continued the tradition and now it’s fun to watch all of my boys exploring the houses and tunnels that I make for them using whatever resources I have at my disposal.

Even though I’m not directly bonding with them I’m creating an experience where they get to bond together and explore the things that I create. 

Sometimes I realize the most important thing is that my three boys bond with each other and work with each other as they grow since they’re so close in age. I’m not gonna live forever and I want them to make sure that their bond is stronger than anything else. So I never feel bad that we bond as a group right now because I know in the future will do some individual bonding…but in the meantime I’ll just keep enjoying this hectic large group of little boys.

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Thank God my boys love to eat, especially breakfast. It’s one of the other times I can get them to sit still. And I’ve found that Very Berry Cheerios is the perfect cereal for them to eat. And I can feel good about what they’re eating because it’s Gluten Free and contains no artificial flavors or colors from artificial sources. 

I have partnered with Life of Dad and Cheerios for this campaign, but my opinions are my own.

 

 

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